I have seen
so many houses like this before:
The house
has a good flow, good light, quality fixtures. Everything works. But, nothing
has been updated since the early 1970s, unless it broke.
In the
kitchen: There’s a high-quality stainless steel stove, circa 1960. The cabinets
are simple oak. The counters are white Formica. The floor is sheet vinyl. The
refrigerator is about three years old, replaced when the gold one died.
The dining
room is paneled. The social area and the downstairs bedrooms have beige carpet
and neutral-colored painted walls. The upstairs bedrooms have sheet vinyl
flooring and painted walls. There is only one full bathroom. The poor thing has
maroon and grey tile; at least the tub, sink and toilet are white. There is a
half bath, long abandoned, in the corner of the family room in the basement.
There are
replacement windows on the north side, including a picture window in the living
room. The master bedroom also has replaced windows. The heating system gave up
the ghost a couple of years ago and was replaced with a modern furnace with
central air conditioning.
This house
hosted family events from 1967 until 2012. The dining room was filled every
Thanksgiving and Passover. Anniversary parties, birthday parties and other
random family events were held in the back yard. How do I know that? Because I
was there.
My FaceBook profile picture was taken there this Thanksgiving. See the paneling?
When I look
at this house as a niece, I see the family home of Selma and Jack Rosen. It was
the best family space I ever enjoyed. I have almost entirely fond memories of
my time there. When I look at it through the eyes of a buyer’s agent, I want to
roll those eyes. It is what I call “a little old lady special.”
I see this
kind of property for sale all the time. This one is personal. It is interesting
to me to see how little any of us cared that the dining room was paneled.
Frankly, I didn’t even notice until I said farewell to the house last
week. It only goes to show that a house
is the walls and a home is the living that happens in it.
Rest in
Peace. Selma Rosen 1915-2012. Jacob Rosen 1912-1994.